Nov 5, 2015

Strawberry Letter: Teenage Love Affair


"He tells me he loves me" Awwww, does she want a cookie? He's telling her & other women he's been with the same thing, so what makes her special? To be honest, both her and her husband have no reason being upset with each other because BOTH of them are doing dirt. He's cheated on her, so she cheats in revenge. This is a good example of how some women try and do what men do; husband cheats, the wife cheats in revenge. What this lady doesn't realize is that she violated her wedding vows, so if her husband left her, he would be within his right. I take that back..no he wouldn't because he's online trying to find women to have relations with as well, so again..both of them are disrespecting their marriage. 
The more of these stories I read, the more confirmation I receive that NO ONE honors their wedding vows anymore. Her sister can see she's being played, why can't this woman?The reason this woman can't see she's being played is for two reasons: 1. She's caught up in the sex, and 2. She refuses to see the error of her ways. She can convince herself she's happy as much as she likes, but the truth says otherwise. There's no love in their marriage because both are stepping outside of their relationship. Makes me wonder why did they get married anyway if all they're going to do is cheat. Yes, they have children, but I'm sure they know what's going on. They say they love each other & don't want to leave their spouses for fear of hurting them. It's too late because they've already hurt their spouses through their infidelity.
It doesn't matter what advice she asks for because she's not going to listen. She's already made up in her mind that she's going to pursue this guy romantically. How do I know? It's easy. They're not trying to cut their ties and supposedly they love each other.

Nov 4, 2015

To Be Continued...

Picking up where I left off yesterday with my best tweets.

The nation wanted God out of schools & court rooms. The nation wanted God out of their lives. This is what we get when a nation turns its back on the very force that allowed it to be founded in the first place. And what gets even better is that these immoral, unethical, and godless punks are running this nation. They wanted God gone. HE gives us one big freedom, that is free will. They wanted Him gone, he's gone. America better wake up.



A couple from my dude Norm, who I follow on Twitter:

Nov 3, 2015

Blended Tweets: Encouragement & Real Talk

Let some people tell it. If a black person speaks against foolishness from his own kind, he's called Uncle Tom, Coon, etc. No wonder blacks continue losing in life.
I believe this 100%. How many couples can HONESTLY say they've been faithful? I'll Wait.

Nov 2, 2015

Strawberry Letter: Too Many Men, Not Enough Me


Who does she think she's fooling? Nobody. She's not in a dilemma. The only dilemma she has is being a ho, and even that can be fixed because all she has to do is make a decision on one man and move on. People make situations more complicated than necessary. She wants support for her hoish ways, that's what this boils down to. She's currently married, but seeing two other men (one is her ex, which she broke up with before she went into the military, and another man). Wow, married women sure get around don't they? She's dealing with 3 men and each has their positives & negatives, and if she doesn't tighten up and make a choice, her problem will solve itself because these men will end up leaving her. How does she find time to be in a relationship with 3 guys? Let me guess: She spends Monday & Tuesday with Man 1, Wednesday & Thursday Man 2, Friday & Saturday Man 3. That's got to be it because if a woman is seeing 3 men while currently married, she's got to be smart in order to keep these men from finding out about each other. What she really needs to do is tighten up her life because it's too loose. Break up with all of these men and focus on herself, and in the process give her life to Jesus because he's the only one who will make her complete. She feels that each man will make her whole in some way when that's not true. Honestly, she doesn't need to be with anyone since she wants to play the field. All she's doing is slipping & sliding in & out of random sperm; to that I say: Ewwww...she needs to get some sense about herself.

Nov 1, 2015

Domino Effect (Officer Ben Fields)

Domino Effect (Officer Ben Fields Fallout)

Before I speak on the viral video of Officer Ben Fields, let me say this: I'm for right, regardless of whether someone's black or white, so with that said: That girl is at fault, and let me explain why:

1. Not complying with directives. She's old enough to know that you cannot have a phone in school. That's asking for teachers or school officials to confiscate it. She should've known the teacher was going to ask her to put the phone away or it would be confiscated.

2. The teacher's job is to maintain order in her classroom, by any means necessary. This girl was being defiant, so the teacher was right in having her removed. No teacher should let some troublemaking students stop them from teaching those students who want to learn.

3. The girl was determined to go out with a bang, and did she ever. She was tensed up in her seat, and she wasn't going away peacefully, so Officer Fields did what it took to get her out, even at the risk of manhandling the girl. He really didn't body slam the girl like people think. He simply yanked her from her seat. The officer saw a defiant student that wouldn't leave when told, he could've cared less what that girl was going through. Officer Fields was there to do his job, and that's what he did, even if it wasn't to people's liking. 

4. Regardless of what that girl was going through, that doesn't give her the green light to be defiant. We all go through hard times in life, but do you see anyone being defiant? No. The world will not take it easy on you just because you go through hard times. 

When these police misconduct videos are posted, the entire video is NEVER shown, just the part folks want you to see; where the cops are allegedly abusing their authority. Why? Because if the entire video was posted (start to finish), I'm sure there would be no misconduct on the officers' part. Because some people have it out for the cops, some people are out to make the police look bad by any means. I'm aware that there are dirty police officers, but the vast majority are good cops.

The Fallout: People don't think about the big picture in these situations. Officer Fields gets fired, some people got their wish; ok, good. A message has been sent to school districts across America to look into getting rid of their SROs (School Resource Officers). Think about it, if Officer Fields is punished for doing his job, what makes people think the same can't happen in their city, at their school? Students will be able to show their behinds 30fold because they know they'll be able to get away with it. No SRO to come down and get them out the classroom because school officials got rid of their School Resource Officer. Remember what happened to Officer Fields, he was fired and now more public pressure is looking for him to face criminal charges. Schools don't want legal issues so I see many schools getting rid of their SROs because if a teacher calls an officer to their classroom because of a disruptive student that won't leave, and the officer does his job, the officer will get in trouble and end up losing his job because you're not "supposed to manhandle children" Never mind that that student hits a teacher & decides to take a swing at him (the officer).

Some people should not be surprised that policemen take their time, or don't come at all when they're called to black neighborhoods. Their hands are tied because the neighborhood protects Ray Ray & Pookie even though they sprayed the neighborhood with AK-47s and 10 people were killed in the process. Yet, these are the same folks that want more police in their neighborhood. Smh😒

Oct 29, 2015

Auditioning For Marriage

Repost: Crissy N Jones
2 hrs
A lot of men want a girlfriend to act like a wife to prove that she is worthy of being a wife. Yet, these same men don’t want to act like husbands to prove they are worthy of being a husband. They are quick to say that a girlfriend shouldn’t expect the same level of treatment as a wife. So why is it that women need to audition for the role of a wife but men don’t think they need to audition for the role of husband? Perhaps women aren't requiring that men prove that they are worthy of being a husband. You have women who have been auditioning for the role of wife for years and still never get the part.

I see where she's coming from because a lot of men are good for that, wanting their woman to prove she's wife material by doing wifely duties, but some of these same men don't want to prove he's husband material to her. At the same time, usually women are the ones wanting to be married & if women are the main ones wanting marriage, wouldn't it make sense to prove yourself as wife material? Even if a woman wants marriage, BOTH parties are auditioning for the husband & wife role. A woman is evaluating a man's ability to care for her as a husband, and vice versa (husband evaluating the wife). There's one key difference: Women state their intentions for marriage early on in a relationship, whereas men like to get a feel for their lady before marriage is discussed. This way, no time is wasted on being with someone that's not on the same trajectory. I think of it as pre-screening; get it done early and if the person's not a fit, move on.
No one has the right to expect that which they aren't willing to provide; some men and women need to stop that foolishness. Technically, many men are right in that a girlfriend shouldn't expect wife treatment. A girlfriend is preparing to be a wife, so there are things that should be reserved for a wife, and vice versa (woman for her man). What many people don't realize is that auditions go both ways: A woman has to prove herself wife material and a man has to prove himself husband material. It's stupid to expect something for which you're not going to provide. Both men & women need to prove they are dating material first, relationship material, second and then marriage will come. Too many men and women acting like husband & wife, and it's not working.
Woman: The reason I give my man wife benefits is because I'm afraid he's going to leave me.
Me: That's that 2015 new-age relationship mindset of most people in relationships, give marriage benefits while in courting. So a woman's giving her mate wife privileges while they're dating, then what? There's nothing to look forward to on wedding day because he's been getting wife privileges since they first started seeing each other. It's become routine to him. If a man is willing to leave a woman because she won't give him wife benefits unless he puts a ring on it, show him the door. That's not someone she needs to be with anyway. If you're giving someone husband &/or wife privileges in the courting phase, they tend not to appreciate it because they figure they didn't have to work for it. What you didn't work for, you won't value it as much.

Oct 28, 2015

Top 5 Tweets: 10/28

Today's Top 5 Tweets will be a little different. I usually post my top 5 tweets, but I'm going to add a brief caption to each of them.

Nobody can tell me anything different. People are committed to one person, I doubt it.
Big Pat spoke the real on this one. How do you have time to focus on someone else's pockets and yours are empty?
All Canes fans can vouch for these tweets regarding the Al Golden era at University Of Miami. Prayers were answered. 

Gentle Parenting

  Gentle parenting breeds disrespectful & entitled kids.🤦🏾😎I’m glad I was raised old-school.